When it comes to the decision of marriage, every one of us ensures we take our time to choose the perfect partner for ourselves. We want to be careful to pick the right person with the right attitude because no one wants to be stuck with someone who’s got a terrible attitude for the rest of our lives. For guys, they do not want to be married to a woman who can barely control her emotions.
A woman who often switches her mood from time to time for no reason. Guys do not want women who are not emotionally mature and often dumb their emotional garbage on them. No one wants that. So, what do guys really want?
In this article I will be sharing with you 10 things guys look for in a woman they want to marry. If you’re new here, consider subscribing so that you won’t miss other interesting articles like this.
- A woman who is respectful
I’m sure I’ll be speaking the mind of every guy when I say, guy love to be respected, in public or not. A man wants a woman who will listen to him when he talks, seeks and considers his opinion on certain issues. A woman who will make him feel honored and respected by the general public. A woman he’ll be proud to associate with in public because not only does she respect him but respects every other person she converses with.
- A woman who is intelligent
Intelligent women are women that know so much about the world around them. They think critically and engage other people’s senses. A man will be attracted to a woman who has the ability to reason and think through matters to the point of providing a workable solution than a woman who concerns herself with designer bags and shoes only. You see, when conversations lack depth, we often fill our time with physical activity together. However, building a real connection or lasting relationship with someone on that alone is impossible. So ladies, go develop yourself.
- A woman who is understanding and empathetic
Building a successful relationship requires being understanding, supportive, empathetic and encouraging, which is why every man looks out for a woman with these attributes. You see, life is full of challenges that couples will face together and will need to overcome as a family. Marrying a woman who is understanding and encouraging is every man’s dream so that they can both overcome these challenges easily.
- A woman who holds similar values as them
Our core values determine our personalities. These are the things we find important, the things we believe strongly. This eventually reflects in the way we treat other people and ourselves. Every man and woman inclusive, are particularly interested in marrying someone who shares the same values with them because if their values don’t align, you will always be clashing in the long term.
- A woman who is attractive
Every man is attracted to a different kind of woman and has his own personal taste. Which means that there is no one way a woman should dress or make herself up to attract a man. However, there is a need for a man to be physically attracted to a woman to kick off a relationship and also hold it together.
- A woman who is confident
There is something sexy about a woman who is confident. A woman who knows her worth, a woman who knows what she wants and isn’t waiting for you to give it to her. She is content with herself and her body. A man is usually attracted to this kind of woman than the timid one whose self-esteem is pretty low or in some other cases, extremely high.
- A woman who is affectionate
Men like women who show affection. Just like women, they also want their woman to hold their hands while taking a stroll in the park. They want to be hugged and kissed randomly and they sometimes want to be asked how their day went. Apparently, this gives them a sense of being wanted.
- A woman who is ambitious
The same way no woman wants a lazy man. Well, ladies, sorry to burst your bubbles, but no man wants a lazy woman as well. Of course, he doesn’t expect you to be the CEO of one of the top industries in the world just yet, but he also wants to love a woman who he can plan his life with. Women who are ambitious are hard workers. They dedicate and commit themselves to their work. They are not scared of the future or other uncertainties because they understand what it takes to get the top. A failure is never an option for them. Men like this kind of women because they are good caretakers and planners and would make the home peaceful and beautiful.
- A woman who has a sense of humor
If a man has a great sense of humor, it will be lost on a woman who is too dry. So it could cause tension if he is often funny and joking, and she is always serious and becomes annoyed with his lighter personality.
- A woman who is friendly
Men build friendships a lot. Hence, they are always hanging out with their friends, coworker or the likes. So, no man wants to be worried about the attitude his girlfriend or wife is going to give to the friend he is trying to introduce her to. He wants someone who is smart, respectable, affection, supportive and friendly. It is important that she’s his teammate in all areas of life. Hence, she should extend courtesy to his family, friends, coworkers, and anyone she gets introduced to by him.
In conclusion, to be a woman a man wants to live with forever, you should work on yourself. Be friendly, respectful and ambitious. Take care of your look and feed your mind with educative resources to make you know and be confident.
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